Given that it is Gemini season, let’s consider delving into the love lives of this dual-bodied sign. One of the biggest complaints that some people have about Gemini is that it’s very difficult to get them to commit to a relationship. This is a sign that is always willing to meet new people and explore new personalities, and they’re always looking to socialize. However, Gemini is not always up for settling down too soon. Even if they have planets in nearby Cancer, Gemini still likes to be engaged with other people’s energy. Depending on what type of sign is interested in Gemini this can spell trouble in the relationship. Thus, getting a Gemini to commit can be tricky…similar to the energy of Gemini itself. The following is just an overview offering details on what intrigues Gemini and what might make them consider a long-term arrangement.
Getting Gemini’s Attention
One of the most important parts of engaging with a Gemini is actually getting their attention. Gemini usually has a very short attention span in regards to people, places, and things. Thus, it will take someone really interesting to keep this very mercurial sign engaged. In reality, all you can do is be yourself if you want to attract Gemini. You really can’t be anything other than who you really are. Gemini will either like you or not. Ultimately, Gemini is seeking that which is engaging and interesting. Thus, there are going to be some people who are less interesting to someone with a lot of Gemini energy. If you are interested in getting Gemini’s attention, the best thing you can do is just offer great conversation as they love to talk, communicate, and learn about new things. A person that can be a good conversationalist will definitely catch Gemini’s attention.Read More »
Keeping Gemini Engaged
Once you finally caught Gemini’s attention, how do you keep it? Well, you have to stimulate them mentally. Because Gemini is an air sign, they enjoy connecting on the mental plane. They really are not one for lots of deep, sloppy emotions. They enjoy keeping things light-hearted and easy breezy. Those signs possessing heavier energy, specifically the earth and water sign, may find it a bit more difficult to keep Gemini engaged if they don’t have a lot of air energy themselves. Gemini is constantly seeking new information, so anything from discussing the latest movie to the details of the new book you’ve read is sure to keep Gemini engaged. They also enjoy socializing with other people, so the more social you are the better because this gives them an opportunity to meet new people through you!
Also, if you can add something to Gemini’s mental repertoire then all the better. Because Gemini craves new information, they are likely to enjoy having people around that can actually teach them something. Also, variety is the spice of life with Gemini. When things get too bland, boring, and commonplace, Gemini will seek out new information and a new experience to keep itself engaged. Remember, this is the ever-curious sign of the zodiac. So, it would be a good idea to stay abreast of all of the new trends and happenings so that you can have something to share with Gemini.
Will Gemini Stay?
So, will a Gemini stay committed? Well, Gemini’s are able to commit…when they are ready. This is one sign that likes variety and due to the mutability of its nature, it can be quite changeable in all aspects of its life. including relationships. Gemini will settle down if they feel they have found someone that they can learn and grow from. The last thing Gemini wants is to be stuck with a person that is a stick-in-the-mud. This is a sign that desires continual learning. Thus, Gemini will need to partner with a person that has the capacity to meet them mentally. They want someone that is socially and mentally engaging, and open to learning new things with them. Stimulation of the mental plane is significantly important in a relationship with a Gemini as they are not ones to usually get caught up in deep emotions. Gemini will also steer clear of tradition if necessary as this keeps them from moving beyond what they know, and it can result in falling into a mental rut.
If a Gemini sticks around in a relationship, it will be because they choose to do so. If they don’t want to stick around, nothing will make them do so. Geminis are quite adept at knowing when people are playing mind games with them, and they may even resort to playing mind games with other people when they want out of a relationship that they feel is no longer stimulating. Thus, Gemini stays in a relationship out of choice. If they are staying with a particular partner, it is because they feel that they are being mentally stimulated which is by far one of the most important elements of dealing with a Gemini.
Gemini Love for the Long-Haul
Gemini, like any sign, desires companionship. However, it has to be on their terms, and those terms are usually based on the mental. Some people may need this overarching emotional, encompassing love. However, Gemini is seeking an intellectual connection. They want to be mentally stimulated and feel as if they are gaining something in terms of ideas and information in being with a particular partner. Thus, there are certain individuals that are necessarily a good match for Gemini. Those individuals who don’t want to communicate and socialize may find that Gemini gets bored quite easily.
Also, as the sociable, airy sign that it is, you have to expect the Gemini wants to engage with its local environment getting to know people and its community. Having a partner that enjoys socializing applies as this allows Gemini to be able to enjoy meeting new people while also having their partner by their side. As a dual-bodied sign, Gemini in many ways is seeking its “twin” beyond the self. That one person that they know that they can engage with on a regular basis. That one person that is comfortable with their dual nature. Gemini will be the first to tell you that they embrace all aspects of their dual personality, and any person that is interested in being with them long-term would have to enjoy their dual nature as well.