As the temperatures drop, there’s this innate desire to just go someplace warm, snuggle up and just get cozy. This time of year is also referred to as cuffing season. It just seems like everyone wants someone or something to cozy up to. There’s this desire to feel at home and safe away from the harsh, cold weather outside. The thing is though, everyone has something different that makes them feel safe and secure. The following is a general overview of what each zodiac sign needs to feel safe. For the best results, you may want to check your moon sign in addition to your sun sign when reading this list. The moon sign gives a greater understanding of what we need to feel secure and safe in our environments. Get ready to cuff up and get what you need to feel most safe and secure during the fall and winter seasons.
For Aries, safety is not necessarily a warm bowl of chicken noodle soup. They feel more secure and safe when they have their own autonomy. There’s nothing Aries desires more than being able to get up and do what they want to do when they want to do it. Their energy is reminiscent of The Fool in tarot. Having the ability to strike out on one’s own and do what one desires without being encumbered definitely makes Aries feel secure within itself.
If you know anything about Taurus, you know that they enjoy their five senses to the fullest. As the first earth sign, it is very important that they have all of their basic needs met so that they are able to thoroughly enjoy the sensual part of life. Want to make Taurus feel secure? Make sure they have a firm foundation that includes a reliable partner, and some good food. For Taurus, meeting these basic needs isn’t asking for much.
Oh, what would Gemini do without the gift of gab? As the mutable air sign of the zodiac, Gemini thoroughly enjoys being able to connect with others through communication. They enjoy collecting information and sharing it amongst those closest to them as well as meeting new people they can connect with. The whole idea of being silent all the time is not something that Gemini would really desire in most cases. Having someone around that gives them some type of mental stimulation is highly important to them and makes them feel comfortable and secure.
If there’s any sign that knows anything about feeling at home and secure, it is definitely Cancer. Of all of the zodiac signs, this is the sign that represents home, so it is very important for these emotional individuals to have a solid home base where they can relax, cuddle up, and enjoy their families. Just think of creating your own cozy, warm nest that’s always there for you no matter what. This is what makes Cancer feel safe and secure.
As the confident queens and kings of the zodiac, Leo needs a steady supply of adoration in order to feel secure. Some will think that because Leo is known for being the center of attention that they don’t really need any external validation. However, this is not true. It’s important to remember that Leo is represented by the sun in astrology, and the sun is the center of the solar system. All of the planets revolve around the sun, so Leo does have this desire to share its light with those in its presence. To make your Leo feel secure, make sure they are receiving adequate amounts of adoration and warm-hearted love.
You can call it critical. You can call it finicky, but Virgo feels its most secure when it has order. This mutable earth sign doesn’t function well when there’s a lot of chaos around. Virgo wants to get their own lives in order, and they are more than welcome to help other people get their lives together as well. To some, this may seem like they’re being hypercritical, nagging, and always looking for something that’s wrong. However, Virgo is a sign that is consistently seeking self-improvement. So, it is important for them to feel that they have their world in order for them to feel safe and secure.
As a sign of the scales, Libra desires harmony, peace, and balance. To feel safe and secure. This is also the sign of partnership, and it is quite common for Libra to desire someone else in their space in order to feel secure. Whether it’s a friend or a lover, Libra does best when they have another to refer to. They are different from their opposite sign Aries which prefers to stand on its own. Libra likes to have something to balance itself out with, and having a relationship makes them feel more secure within themselves.
While the sign of Scorpio is more than capable of being alone, there is this desire to explore the depths of themselves with someone deeply special. The intimate bonds that Scorpio desires are very different from those of the Libra relationship. Scorpionic bonds are based on something that is deeper, and transformative. It is through these intimate bonds that Scorpio is offered the opportunity to do much healing for the self and for the other.
Sagittarius-A Bit of Adventure
The Jupiter ruled Sagittarius feels more secure when they are on the road again. This is one sign that may not necessarily need the comfort of a traditional home like the sign of Cancer in order to feel secure. Security for Sagittarius is the ability to explore different horizons and anything that allows them to expand their minds. In some ways, Sagittarius is the sign that makes home wherever they are, and home is usually someplace afar.
Capricorn-Status & Success
As the Saturn ruled sign of the zodiac, Capricorn is always reaching for success. This is a sign that has a master plan, and they are going to follow it until they get to where they want to be. Plus, Capricorn feels more secure when they have status and success. These outward symbols of achievement and recognition affirm Capricorns hardworking nature. As an earth sign, Capricorn wants to see something physical to show for its hard work, and symbols of success provide that affirmation and security.
Being Uranus ruled, Aquarius feels most secure when they’re allowed to let their freak flag fly. There’s nothing more stifling to Aquarius than conformity. In some ways, Aquarius will go the opposite direction just so they don’t have to be like everyone else. So, the best way to make Aquarius feel secure is to allow them to be able to express their quirky, unique ways without judgment.
Pisces-The Spirit Realm
Of all the signs, Pisces is the most secure when they have a firm connection to the Divine. This connection is quite difficult to explain because it is unique to the individual. Pisces understands that they are connected to everything and that all is one is something that makes them feel secure. Security is not necessarily wrapped up in things and not even people in some cases. Security is found in knowing that they are one with everything and that there is something much greater than them that supports them on their journey here on earth.