Finding a partner can be a challenge. In fact, if a long-term relationship has recently failed, you may wonder if you’re just not good at choosing who you fall in love with. However, with a bit of guidance from the moon and a careful review of your horoscope, you can get some help from the stars.
1) Chaser or Chasee?
Read More »Avoid love with a Cancer or a Capricorn. Your forwardness will likely be abrasive to their sensitive natures. Capricorns need structure and may cramp your free-wheeling, “I want it, so I’m going to go get it!” mindset.
2) Slow to Fall In Love
For the Taurus, love and trust walk side by side, and the Taurus is often slow to fall in love. Rough experiences in the love department may make them even more skittish. In addition, Taurus’ are not great at small talk, so the early stages of dating can be challenging.
To get over the discomfort quickly, a Taurus will often thrive in the company of a Scorpio. Because both of these signs feel things deeply, love may come faster than either expect. Trust will also be established quickly, and treasured deeply.
The Taurus will struggle in the company of a Leo. The Leo tends to love the spotlight and really wants to stand out, which may lead the Taurus to lose interest. Taurus may be drawn to the Aquarius but lose heart by being too distant. Two signs who are mistrustful will often take too long to connect.
3) Physicality
With a Gemini, what you see is what you get. They’re just fun! They enjoy the physicality of sex and often have no concerns about nudity. Thanks to their self-confidence, they may be wild about the free-spirited and brash Leo or the adventurous Sagittarius.
Signs with a strong physical facet to their love life may struggle to get close to a Pisces or a Cancer. The Pisces loves to follow her instincts and may not be able to verbalize any discomfort she feels with an adventurous partner. The Cancer loves with everything he’s got; heart, soul and body. This makes him vulnerable to the more adventurous signs.
4) Cocoon
Some lovers are happy to snuggle up and ignore the rest of the world, while others find this stifling and desire a break. Scorpios love being in love, and they enjoy passionate sex. Their hyper-focus on time with their partner can lead to a sense of entrapment.
Signs that prefer a bit more autonomy, like the free-wheeling Aquarius, may enjoy the tension of the chase, but eventually signs like these will drive each other crazy. For deepest intimacy and focus, the intense Scorpio may enjoy cocooning under the full moon with the tender Cancer.
5) Verbalization
The Libra will let you know exactly what they want in a relationship. From dinner to furniture layout to sex, you won’t have to wonder what the Libra in your life wants. If you’re open to this, signs such as the plainspoken Gemini and the brash Aries are great partners.
A Libra will struggle with connecting to the tender Cancer. Not everyone likes to be told what to do, and some may take it very badly. Because Libra has a strong sense of right and wrong and Cancer knows what’s kind and what isn’t, grudges can spring up and make the relationship brittle and unkind.
Conclusion
There are some benefits to having non-compatible features of your relationship. A little tension between people is good; it keeps you interested and can lead to a good fight, which might lead to great make-up sex. However, seriously incompatible communication and love styles can leave one partner feeling bereft and the other feeling emotionally battered. Be respectful and loving, but know that if your styles just won’t mesh, you won’t be happy in the long-term
